[ID: nine impasto paintings in soft colours, featuring the moon. many paintings also feature clouds, flowers, and/or the sea/beach. in all paintings the moon is a crescent, except for the one in the middle, where it’s full. /end ID]
No, no. I can have one more shot, I swear. I won’t start behaving like a flamboyantly gay pansy stock character in a pre-code film again. I swear. You can trust me. Darling, you must trust me.
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Anonymous:
I just got a bit anxious since u said u support all identities that get debated I was anxious maybe u also meant transID since I like ur blog 😭😭
But I've only heard transracial/transrace reffering to the problematic one, though I thinnk I remember something really similair beibg used for what u said??? Or maybe it's just like in different contexts, since a lot of words have double definitions that might be it
ohhh no no no i just don’t know an easier way to say ‘i support aros and aces and pan people and bi people and bi lesbians and nonbinary people and neopronouns" without. saying all of that dw
afaik transracial is a term that means many things, but one of those things involved adoption by a family that has a different racial background than your own. It’s not totally my place to speak on it, though.
smthing i can just never believe when ppl (mostly twitter users) complain about a girl character being made to look ‘mannish’ or 'masculine’ and talk about the death of femininity and every time i get excited and think 'oh okay cool did we get a butch character or-’ and its literally jusg a regular fucking woman like you would see at the grocery store. like jusyt a normal woman
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Anonymous:
Is it okay if I just ask ur stance on TransID (transabled, transrace/rcta/etca etc)?? If you'd rather answer in priv I can send an ask off anon
do people like. actually condone that stuff? bc im sorry if i ever gave that impression somehow. i didnt. realize that people actually believed in those things for real ig. everytime i see it come up its a joke. Like my only nuance on that is that. isn’t transracial as a term a totally unrelated thing? like transracial refers to adoption, right? but otherwise yeah that shit sucks but i’ve luckily never ran into anyone who actually believes in it.
hi!!! do u have a dni anywhere??? i stumbled across ur blog but i can't seem to find a dni i just wanted to check :<
not a public one, nope! haven’t had one for a while. I get the need, i had one for years. but after a while, it became.. quite obvious that no one was reading it. I surveyed my followers at one point and figured out that less than half had looked at my about at all. I just realized that it wasn’t doing what it needed to, and i ended up scrapping it and blocking when i can. I do get it goes both ways tho, and while i try to be as public about my opinons as I can, i get if someone feels uncomfy with me lacking one. It was just a choice i made when I realized It wasn’t doing what i needed it to do.
But to sum up: I don’t really take any strong labels these days, i don’t allign myself with a side of a fight, i don’t think it works like that. But i tend to believe that no one has any authority telling other people what to identify as and who belongs in the community or who experiences what. I don’t deny that the people who choose to be assholes online do feel those things, and i’m sorry it causes them so much pain to worry about what others call themselves, and i’m very against claiming anyone isn’t who they say they are idenity wise. I’m inclusionist of pretty much everything, and i believe that people should be able to refer to themselves how they choose to even if people don’t get it or theyre not a nice person. I’m also very pro kink, if i haven’t made that clear. I have certain things I am very wary and uncomfortable about or view as very slippery slopes, hence why i don’t condone proshippers but i also do understand to some level that people will continue to do what they want so i don’t argue online as much anymore, i’m not changing anyone’s mind here. The issue that really bugs me these days is a lot of the transandrophobia type blogs. It’s not that i deny that trans men face some opression, i don’t think anyone is, i just am very aware of how misogyny ridden those types of blogs tend to be and am pretty wary of them. Again, I have little interest in drawn out debates because I don’t think i’m changing anyone’s mind. But TDLR: i’m inclusionist of all of those constantly debated identities, don’t like proship stuff, very wary of discussions of transmisandary but do believe very strongly in transmisogyny.
at a certain point depression is just coming up with new fucked up circumstances i wish i was depending on my mood. like i dont want to die all the time anymore sometimes i want to wake up in a stained hospital gown with all my memories completly gone because apperantly they found me washed up on the beach and everyone hopes they can help me retrace my steps and figure it out but i never do so i just live a new life away from everything i’ve ever known
other times i want to be an elderly caretaker of a cemetary who no one knows anything about and just kinda. is there or enter an extreme bdsm lifestyle i probably am not currently at a proper mental state for but maybe someday. or join a nudist colony. yknow i have range
